Hamesha lagta hai ki doosron ki life humse better hai. Ek taraf se dekhne par dusre log zyada successful, zyada khush, aur behtar life jeete dikhte hain. Par kya ye sach hai? Ya phir hum sirf unki kahani ka ek chamakdaar hissa dekh rahe hain? Asal mein, safalta aur sukh waha milta hai jahan hum apni mehnat aur pyaar dete hain. Iska seedha sa matlab hai – “The grass is greener where you water it.”

Bohot baar hum doosron ki life se itna prabhavit ho jate hain ki apni zindagi ko underestimate karne lagte hain. Social media ke zamaane mein har koi apni best version dikhane mein laga rehta hai, par uske piche ki struggle aur sacrifice nazar nahi aati. Jab hum apne sapno ki jagah doosron ki safalta par dhyan dete hain, toh apni zindagi ki un possibilities ko kho dete hain jo hum bana sakte the.

Apni life ko behtar banane ka ek hi tareeka hai – uspar dhyan dena, usko nourish karna aur mehnat karna. Jaise ek maali apni bagiya ka dhyan rakhta hai, waise hi humein apni life, career, aur relationships ko nurture karna hoga. Agar kisi ko lagta hai ki kisi aur ki zindagi behtar hai, toh zaroori nahi ki unhone bina mehnat ke wo sab kuch hasil kiya ho. Har safal insan apni jagah par apni mehnat ka paani daal raha hota hai.

Agar hum apni skills ko improve karne, apne relationships ko strong banane, aur apni physical aur mental health par dhyan dene lagein, toh humari life bhi waise hi khil uthegi jaise ek hari-bhari bagiya. Par aksar log doosron ki safalta se prabhavit hoke apni mehnat chod dete hain. Unko lagta hai ki dusre log kisi magic ke zariye safalta pa rahe hain, jabki asal magic unki consistency aur mehnat hai.

Zindagi ek journey hai jo tabhi behtar banegi jab hum apni energy sahi jagah invest karenge. Agar kisi ne apni life mein kuch achieve kiya hai, toh iska matlab hai ki usne apni “grass” ko ache se paani diya hai. Hum bhi agar apni jagah mehnat karein, positive rahein aur apne goals par focus karein, toh humari life bhi hara-bhara maidan ban sakti hai.

Isliye, doosron ki success ko sirf dekhne ke bajaye, apni jagah mehnat karna shuru karo. Kyunki, asli safalta wahi hai jo hum apni mehnat se khud banate hain.