Zindagi ek safar hai jo sirf khushiyon se nahi bhara hota, balki dukh, chot, aur musibat bhi iska hissa hai. Kabhi kabhi jo dukh humein todta hai, wahi humein ek naye roshni ke raste tak le jaata hai. Rumi ka yeh mashhoor quote – “The wound is the place where the light enters you” – ek gehri aur maayne rakhne wali baat hai. Iska matlab yeh hai ki jo dukh ya chot hum apne jeevan mein jhelte hain, wahi humari roohani aur aatmik growth ka sabab banta hai.

Insaan jab khush hota hai, tab woh zyada kuch seekhne ya badalne ke mood mein nahi hota. Magar jab takleef hoti hai, jab dil tootta hai, jab kisi apne ka nuksan hota hai, tab insaan andar se badalne lagta hai. Yeh dukh ek darwaza kholta hai jo naye nazariye aur naye jazbaton ko andar aane ka mauka deta hai. Zindagi ki sabse gehri seekh aksar dukh ke raste se hi aati hai.

Agar hum history dekhein, toh har bade insaan ne kisi na kisi takleef se hokar hi apni roshni payi hai. Koi artist apne dukh se ek behtareen tasveer banata hai, koi writer apne dukh ko shabdon mein utaarta hai, toh koi yogi apni andar ki chot se ek naya jeevan dikhai dene lagta hai. Yeh sabhi log apni andar ki choton ko sirf ek takleef ki tarah nahi, balki ek naye roshni ke mauke ki tarah dekhte hain.

Jab insaan kisi dukh se guzarta hai, tab uska dil ek naye tarike se mehsoos karne lagta hai. Woh auron ke dukh ko samajhne lagta hai, usme ek naya karuna ka bhaav jaagta hai. Yeh karuna hi insaan ko ek behtar vyakti banati hai. Ek bikhra hua dil hi doosron ke dukh ko mehsoos kar sakta hai aur unke liye roshni ban sakta hai.

Zindagi ka yeh sach hai ki chot lagegi, dukh aayega, par agar hum usse sirf ek takleef ki tarah dekhenge, toh woh sirf dukh hi rahega. Lekin agar hum usse ek naye safar ki shuruaat maan lein, ek naye roshni ka darwaza maan lein, toh wahi dukh ek naye jeevan ka aadhar ban sakta hai. Toh jab bhi koi gham aaye, ya koi chot lage, samajhna ki wahi chot ek roshni ka darwaza khol rahi hai jo humein ek naye insaan banne ka mauka de rahi hai.